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Therapy
with Individuals
The process of therapy
is a collaboration. I commit to providing a safe,
comfortable, pleasant, private environment, my total and complete
attention, a willingness to create a strong and trusting therapeutic
relationship, experience and therapy skills and a deep desire to support
you on your personal journey.
I consider myself
to be a warm, open and interactive therapist. It is important to me that
you, as my client, feel truly seen, felt, understood, validated, supported,
accepted and respected by me. I am eclectic in my approach and will be
responsive to the type and style of therapy that best suits you.
Your willingness to explore your issues, confront your fears, acknowledge
and tell your truth, heal your wounded places, and the courage to push
beyond your comfort zone, on occasion, will yield the greatest benefits
to you, as a client.
What initially brings
you to therapy is usually a good place to begin.
Typically, these may include:
- Emotional
distress
- Anxiety
- Feelings
of loneliness or isolation
- Depression
or Moodiness
- Sexual disturbances
- Unexplained
fatigue
- Unusual eating
patterns
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- Excessive
alcohol or drug use
- Family conflict
or tension
- Divorce or
separation or
other serious life changes
- Difficulty
coping
- Fear, anger
or guilt
- Grief and/or
loss.
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The first task is
usually to identify the issues you are struggling with. This may include
looking into your past history with your family and relationships, issues
of childhood, exploring negative patterns and beliefs, blocks and obstacles
that impair your ability to function effectively or live your life fully.
I will support and guide you through this process.
It is important to
establish goals for therapy. Questions such as “How would I like
my life to be different as a result of therapy?”, “What’s
keeping me from experiencing the things I want?,” “What am
I willing to do to improve my life?”, “Why would these changes
be difficult for me to accomplish?”, and related inquiries help
to define the direction of therapy. Together, we would identify the most
important areas to focus on in therapy and create a plan. As the work
progresses, the hope is that you will feel better and produce the results
you seek. Some indications that therapy is working include: feeling less
worried, afraid or anxious, problems are being resolved, relationships
are improving or you experience feeling better about yourself.
Sometimes you may
feel worse before you feel better. This is part of the therapeutic process
and usually means that you are making progress. This makes sense when
you think about the work you are doing. You are probably changing negative
patterns that, in some ways may have served to protect you in the past.
Even though letting go of behaviors and attitudes that no longer work
for you is a positive change, you may experience a loss or a void, until
you can create more positive ways of being to take their place. We will
work together to help the changes happen.
Because this is a
collaborative effort between us, I encourage an active dialogue about
the nature of our work together and welcome feedback, questions and concerns
about the process. I believe strongly in your capacity for change, growth
and healing and as your therapist, will securely support and guide you
on your journey toward wholeness and the successful completion of your
goals and aspirations.
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